The Daily Stoic - January 4 - "The Big Three"

Control your perceptions.

Direct your actions properly.

Willingly accept what's outside your control.

The authors of The Daily Stoic used this as a summary of what Marcus Aurelius wrote in Meditations, 9.6 as well as the three principals of Stoicism: Perception, Action, Will. 

 

The Stoic logic is circular in nature (or overlapping for lack of better verbiage) when making decisions and for those in the recovering communities. For those of us who are control freaks, this is difficult to wrap our minds around. 

Control your perceptions - And wisdom to know the difference. ➜ God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change

 

What can I control? What is outside of my control? (This is a form of knowledge.)

 

Direct your actions properly - Courage to change the things I can;

 

How should I use my new found knowledge? (Knowledge is freedom after all.)

 

Willingly accept what's outside your control - And wisdom to know the difference. ➜ God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change

 

What can I control? What is outside of my control? Will my actions result in something beyond my control? If it does, accept this fact and move on. There are more important things to direct my attention to than something I cannot control.

 

The biggest challenge I will have this year is controlling perceptions and sorting out what is controllable and what is not on the spot while trying to make decisions (especially at work). 

As stated in previous post, I am new to Stoicism, so I could be way off base with the way I am interpreting these meditations. This is a learning experience for me.

The Daily Stoic - January 3 - Learning to Say "No"

Today's meditation is about learning to say "No." to the things that do not matter. This allows us to claim our lives back and live the way we want to and not the way other people want us to. This is especially useful for those who are always to busy to live life.

While saying "No." can be difficult, so can saying "Yes." The fear of hurting someone is always there. As someone severely introverted (INTJ), the internal conflict of yes or no is a constant battle in my head. This is something I would love to work on. Future goals.

The Daily Stoic - January 2 - Knowledge is Freedom

For the last year and a half, I have been focused on physical health; something I neglected for far too long. For 2022, I will continue to focus on physical health, but I will be incorporating mental health as well.

Typically, I use this blog to post my reviews of books that I have read throughout the year, but this year, I am also going to use it to follow my journey through a book called The Daily Stoic. I did not realize that there was also a daily reflection journal as well, so I may miss some of the reflection points as I did not purchase it. I am new to Stoicism, so I am not at all knowledgeable in the area. It is my hope that this will change as the year passes.

For January 2, the mediation to reflect on is that knowledge is freedom. I found this to be somewhat interesting because all our lives we are told that knowledge is power. So, what is knowledge? Is it power? It is freedom? Is it both?

I spent a little time (maybe an hour or so) with Google and searched for knowledge is power vs knowledge is freedom. Most of the articles I found either went along the lines of “knowledge is power” or “knowledge is power is freedom.” I also found a “blook” by David Gurteen called Conversational Leadership. Apparently a blook is a combination of book and blog; this is the first time I have heard (or read in this case) the term.

The chapter I read (found here) was about knowledge management and it argued that knowledge is not power. The chapter contained a list of things you could do with knowledge. I will not list them all here, but among them was “chose to ignore it” and “not accept it as true.” Most of the items on the list had a common theme and that theme was the ability to chose what to do with that knowledge. This is free will. This is freedom.

Two other items in the list were “not have the political skills to influence or persuade senior management to take you seriously” and “not have the budget or other resources to put the knowledge into action.” These limitations, while not power, are still actionable.

Don’t have the budget? Raise funds.

Don’t have the skills to connect with your superiors or other groups you need to influence? Learn them (more knowledge!). Become effective.

Having knowledge does not grant power; it grants you the freedom to make informed decisions or take action based on that knowledge. Knowledge is freedom. Knowledge is freedom that can lead to power.

POPSUGAR Reading Challenge 2022

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1. A book published in 2022

2. A book set on a plane, train, or cruise ship

3. A book about or set in a non-patriarchal society

4. A book with a tiger on the over or "tiger" in the title

5. A sapphic book

6. A book by a Latinx author

7. A book with an onomatopoeia in its title

8. A book with a protagonist who uses a mobility aid

9. A book about a "found family"

10. An Anisfield-Wolf Book Award winner

11. A #BookTok recommendation

12. A book about the afterlife

✔ 13. A book set in the 1980s - City on Fire by Don Winslow

14. A book with cutlery on the cover or in the title

15. A Book by a Pacific Islander author

✔ 16. A book about witches - Payback's a Witch by Lana Harper

17. A book becoming a TV series or movie in 2022

18. A romance novel by a BIPOC author

19. A book that take place during your favorite season

✔ 20. A book whose title begins with the last letter of your previous read - Nightwork by Nora Roberts (previous book was Flowers for Algernon)

21. A book about a band or musical group

22. A book with a character on the ace spectrum

23. A book with a recipe in it

✔ 24. A book you can read in one sitting - Skipping Christmas by John Grisham

25. A book about a secret

26. A book with a misleading title

27. A Hugo Award winner

28. A book set during a holiday

29. A different book by an author you read in 2021

30. A book with the name of a board game in the title

31. A book featuring a man-made disaster

32. A book with a quote from your favorite author in the cover or Amazon page

33. A social-horror book

34. A book set in Victorian times

35. A book with a constellation on the cover or in the title

36. A book you know nothing about

37. A book about gender identity

✔ 38. A book featuring a party - Unspeakable Things by Jess Lourey

39. An #OwnVoices SFF (science fiction and fantasy) book

40. A book that fulfills your favorite prompt from a past POPSUGAR Reading Challenge

ADVANCED 

41. A book with a reflected image on the cover or "mirror" in the title

42. A book that features two languages

43. A book with a palindromic title

✔ 44. A duology (1) - Once Upon a Broken Heart by Stephanie Garber

✔ 45. A duology (2) - The Ballad of Never After by Stephanie Garber

46. A book about someone leading a double life

47. A book featuring a parallel reality

48. A book with two POVs

49. Two books set in twin towns, aka "sister cities" (1)

50. Two books set in twin towns, aka "sister cities" (2)

Review: Oak Avenue

Oak Avenue by Brandi Reeds
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This was an excellent end to the series!

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Review: The Remedy

The Remedy by Adam Haslett
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The story itself did not pull me in, but at the end I was suddenly reminded of 1984.

Amazon Originals - Dark Corners Collection Book 6

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Review: The Tangled Woods

The Tangled Woods by Emily Raboteau
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

The "horror" of this story consists of current events/movements. None of the characters are likeable.

Amazon Originals - Dark Corners Collection Book 5

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